Part 1: Laying the Foundation for Success
The journey towards the 11+ exam is a significant milestone in a child's academic life. While often viewed through the narrow lens of tests and scores, its true potential lies in the opportunity for growth, resilience, and partnership.
Understanding the 11+: More Than Just a Test
What It Really Is
A selective assessment used by grammar schools to identify students with strong aptitude for a fast-paced curriculum. It's an opportunity to showcase problem-solving skills and knowledge.
The Real Value
The preparation develops critical thinking, logical deduction, and vocabulary - foundational skills for success in any secondary school environment.
Fostering a Growth Mindset: The Power of "Yet"
Instead of saying:
- ✗"You're so smart!"
- ✗"This is too difficult for you"
- ✗"You failed the test"
Try this:
- ✓"I'm impressed with how hard you worked!"
- ✓"You can't do this yet"
- ✓"What can we learn from this?"
The "Little and Often" Philosophy
Short, focused study sessions of 20-30 minutes are far more effective than lengthy marathons. This builds academic stamina gradually without causing burnout.
Creating the Schedule:
- 1.Assess current commitments
- 2.Identify priorities based on strengths/weaknesses
- 3.Block in 25-45 minute study sessions
- 4.Schedule mandatory downtime
- 5.Stay flexible - life happens!
Ideal Study Space:
- Quiet and distraction-free
- Comfortable chair and desk
- Good lighting
- Organized materials ready
Making Learning Fun: Family Activities
Vocabulary Ventures
- • Scrabble & Boggle nights
- • Family Word of the Day
- • Vocabulary flashcard games
- • Story-writing competitions
Real-World Maths
- • Baking (fractions & ratios)
- • Shopping budgets
- • Mental maths car games
- • DIY project measurements
Reasoning Riddles
- • LEGO constructions
- • Jigsaw puzzles
- • Sudoku challenges
- • Origami creations